A woman was shocked after her cousin accused her of ruining her wedding – because she had an allergic reaction to peanuts.

The bride had confirmed the meal was nut-free but the wedding guest had to whip out her epi-pen during the meal after eating something she was allergic to.

The bride said she stole the limelight away from her in a text message and did not even offer an apology for endangering her life.

Taking to Reddit, the woman asked for advice on whether she was ‘selfish’ for going to the hospital after having the allergic reaction or if the bride should have acted differently.