A woman was shocked after her cousin accused her of ruining her wedding – because she had an allergic reaction to peanuts.

The bride had confirmed the meal was nut-free but the wedding guest had to whip out her epi-pen during the meal after eating something she was allergic to.

The bride said she stole the limelight away from her in a text message and did not even offer an apology for endangering her life.

Taking to┬áReddit, the woman asked for advice on whether she was ‘selfish’ for going to the hospital after having the allergic reaction or if the bride should have acted differently.