It is embarrassing when grown women engage in social media battles over a man! It is embarrassing for grown women to engage in any battle over a man. Period! I know that we all love a good drama and that love triangles make for good reality TV. The uncovering of the love triangles of celebrities over the past few weeks has left many entertained but I couldn’t help but feel sorry for these women fighting over men. The saddest part of it all is that these women drag each other in the mud over men who are not even remotely worth it! These women will be all over social media, proudly proclaiming they are the “main chick”. I don’t care much for “main chicks” or “side chicks”. The truth of the matter is that you are not the only chic!

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If, as a woman, you have ever had to fight another woman over a man, you have already lost. Let me enlighten you on something, ladies. There’s simply no winning when fighting over a man. The bitter truth here is that when you bandy words or engage in fisticuffs with another woman, the only person who wins is the “d**chebag” in the middle. After enjoying the drama from the sideline, he gets to sit back and get a nice little ego boost as you tear each other apart over him. And you know what else? He has the satisfaction of knowing that however things turn out, he is still going to have at least one of you at his side!